In this post, I continue discussing effective feedback strategies following my previous post on mentoring to give feedback.
Clarify Your Role, Then Deliver the Feedback
| Step | What to Do | Why It Matters |
|---|---|---|
| Identify your stake | You’re the one who’s blocked, so you’re entitled to raise the issue. | Ownership drives action. |
| Seek a mediator if needed | Ask a project lead or team lead to help you frame the conversation. | Removes personal bias and ensures the talk stays productive. |
| Stick to the facts | “The review cycle is X hours long. I need it to be Y hours for timely delivery.” | Keeps it objective and measurable. |
| Offer solutions | “Could we add a quick 15‑min sync, or use an ‘urgent’ flag on Slack?” | Shows you’re part of the fix, not just pointing out a problem. |
If you’re uncertain about your authority, you can always ask a senior team member for guidance. They’ll typically appreciate the attempt to resolve friction before it escalates.
How to formalise this into a sustainable process?
“you will hear his side of the story. and then you both come to negotiations… agree on a time to catch up, end‑of‑day async updates…”
Build Lightweight, Transparent Working Agreements
- Regular Check‑Ins
- Daily stand‑up (5 min) – quick status sync.
- Optional 15‑min sync – when a blocker arises.
- Asynchronous Updates
- Slack “Daily Digest” channel where each teammate posts:
- What was completed today.
- What is pending/rolling over.
- No‑push policy after 6 PM to respect work-life boundaries.
- Slack “Daily Digest” channel where each teammate posts:
- Response Time Goals
- Slack – “Urgent” messages: < 30 min.
- PR Reviews – “Urgent” reviews: < 2 h.
- Normal – < 6 h.
- Transparency About Availability
- If working off‑site or on errands, send a quick Slack “Out‑of‑office” note.
- Blocking & Support
- Ask each other: “Is there anything that’s blocking you right now? How can I help?”
- Keep a lightweight “Blocker Log” that anyone can add to.
- Review & Iterate
- At the end of each sprint, spend 10 min revisiting the process.
- Adjust response time targets or sync frequency based on actual data.
📌 Final Thoughts
When one teammate’s responsiveness drags a whole project, the quickest antidote is to bring the issue into an open conversation and then codify a simple, transparent routine that keeps everyone on the same page. The key ingredients are:
- Honesty & specificity – state the problem, give concrete examples, explain the impact.
- Collaboration – invite the other side to share their constraints and co‑create solutions.
- Process anchors – lightweight syncs, clear response windows, and daily async updates.
- Follow‑through – let the team owner (or you, if you’re a team lead) discuss the outcomes in the next 1:1 or stand‑up.
By doing so, you’ll not only eliminate the current delay, but you’ll also strengthen the team’s communication culture, ensuring future projects stay on track—even when life throws a few unexpected delays their way.
In the next post, I will discuss communication strategies for remote teams.






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